is a major ambition in the life of a Christian. It is something we pursue. That is our approach to life in the family. We look for opportunities to love our family members. The approach of many to family relationships could be called one of concession. People approach situations with these types of attitudes: “I will go this far and no further”; “Somehow I must get him to agree to this, and I will use my persuasive skills to achieve that”; or, “OK, I will agree to this unhappily, just to keep her